Just as the body can become sick with illness, so can the soul: “I said, ‘O LORD, be gracious to me; heal my soul (רְפָאָה נַפְשִׁי), for I have sinned against you'” (Psalm 41:4). The targum Onkelos states that God breathed into Adam the ability to think and to speak. In other words, thought and speech are two primary characteristics of the image (tzelem) and likeness (demut) of God. Since our use of words is directly linked to the “breath of God” within us, lashon hara (לָשׁוֹן הָרָה), or evil speech, defaces God’s image within us…. Using words to inflict pain therefore perverts the image of God, since God created man to use language to “build up” others in love. This is part of the reason the metzora (i.e., one afflicted with tzara’at, or skin disease) was regarded as a “leper” in need of rebirth…
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Lashon hara (evil speech) is really a symptom of the “evil eye” (ayin hara). As it says in Scripture: “Evil comes to one who searches (דָּרַשׁ) for it” (Prov. 11:27). We must train ourselves to use the “good eye” (ayin tovah) and extend kaf zechut (כַּף זְכוּת) – the “hand of merit” to others. Genuine faith is optimistic and involves hakarat tovah, that is, recognizing the good in others and in life’s circumstances. Gam zu l’tovah: “This too is for the good” (Rom. 8:28). The Midrash states that God afflicted houses with tzara’at so that treasure hidden within the walls would be discovered. The good eye finds “hidden treasure” in every person and experience.
King David said (Psalm 35:13): “May what I prayed for happen to me!” (literally, tefillati al-cheiki tashuv – “may it return upon my own breast”). Some of our prayers are conscious words spoken to God, whereas others are unconscious expressions of our inner heart attitudes. When we harbor indifference, ill will, or unforgiveness toward others, we are only hurting ourselves. It is very sobering to realize that our thoughts are essentially prayers being offered up to God… When we seek the good of others we find God’s favor, healing and life. Yeshua spoke of “good and evil treasures of the heart” that produce actions that are expressed in our words (Luke 6:45). A midrash states that if someone speaks well of another, the angels above will then speak well of him before the Holy One.
In light of the enigma of “spiritual impurity” (i.e., tumah) and its ultimate expression revealed in the corruption of death, it is all the more telling that we should heed the cry of the Spirit: “Choose Life!” (Deut. 30:19). מָוֶת וְחַיִּים בְּיַד־לָשׁוֹן – “Death and life are in the use of the tongue” (Prov. 18:21). Sin is a type of “spiritual suicide” that seduces us to exchange eternal good for the petty and trivial. The nachash (serpent) in the garden of Eden was the first to speak lashon hara. He slandered God and lied to Eve about how to discern between good and evil. He is a murderer and the father of lies. Resist his wiles with the truth of God…
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May it please the LORD to help each of us be entirely mindful of the power and sanctity of our words… May it please Him to help us use our words for the purpose of strengthening and upbuilding (οἰκοδομὴν) one another (Eph. 4:29). May God help us take every thought “captive” to the obedience of the Messiah, thereby enabling us to always behold and express the truth of God’s unfailing love. Amen.
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