We read in the Torah (Vaetchanan) “And I pleaded (ואתחנן) with the LORD at that time, to say…” (Deut. 3:23), which implies that we must first pray in order to be able to pray, that is, we make ourselves ready to pray by finding the inner freedom and grace to groan before the LORD…. If you can’t find the words to pray, then plead with the LORD and ask for the Holy Spirit to groan on your behalf (Rom. 8:26). “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you” (Matt. 7:7). “O Lord, open my lips, and my mouth will show forth your praise” (Psalm 51:15).
The need to pray with the proper focus, intention, and heart is surely one of our greatest needs… “Lord, teach us to pray” (Luke 11:1). The disciples were not asking for a formula or recipe prayer (such as might be recited from a prayer book), but for the right motivation, direction, and “Torah” of prayer… If we ask according to his will, God hears us (1 John 5:14), since we are speaking heaven’s “language” of truth and humility. Therefore pray for the ability to pray effectively, to commune in trust with your heavenly Father. The prayer of a righteous person has great power (James 5:16).
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