Often it is not what is said that matters in our prayers, but what is unsaid… We ask God for help but we have no idea what that help might entail, and therefore we must trust Him to do the best, whatever that may be, and to answer the silent cry and groan of the heart. As John Bunyan said, “When you pray, rather let thy heart be without words than thy words be without heart.”
The late Henri Nouwen wrote, “I am beginning to see that much of praying is grieving,” since the confession of the truth when we “come to ourselves” (Luke 15:17) is often painful. When we pray to the LORD, however, it’s obvious that we are not imparting to Him any information, since the Master of the Universe knows all things. As King David wrote: ki ein milah bilshoni, hen, Adonai, yadati khulah: “For there is not a word in my tongue, but, lo, O LORD, you know it altogether” (Psalm 139:4). Yeshua taught us to abstain from using “vain repetitions” in our prayers, since our Heavenly Father knows what we need before we ask Him (Matt. 6:7-8). True prayer is a means of reverent listening, or quieting ourselves, so that we might hear what the Spirit of God is saying… When we pray bekhol levavkha, with all our heart, we apprehend God’s glory and express our desire to Him. We are then able to intercede by means of the Spirit with “groanings too deep for words” (Rom. 8:26). In a sense our deepest prayer “aligns our groans” to those of His own heart…
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